You’re a BT. You’ve been frum for awhile – a very loooooooooong while. You’ve done shidduchim. But you haven’t met a compatible person. Then, you have a chance meeting with someone who is perfect in every way except one – perhaps she’s not frum or perhaps he’s not Jewish. What would you do?
More importantly, if you decided to marry this otherwise perfect person, what would you compromise on? What would you give up for love? Part of me says I’d give up everything. The other part says nothing. The first part of me is much bigger than the second. I’d say it’s 90-10 I’d chuck it all, if necessary. I’m not in this position now, but could easily be one day.
What do you think? What should I do? What would you do?